Unfortunately Carpentersville is in the front page again,
“When 16-month-old Benjamin Kingan died suddenly after being at a Lincolnshire day care Wednesday, the family and police thought it was perhaps a seizure or something congenital. The devastated family put death notices in newspapers and arranged a funeral for Saturday as friends and family came in from out of town to bury the boy.
But that funeral was canceled after an autopsy by the Lake County Coroner determined Benjamin was the victim of a homicide — allegedly killed after a day-care worker who was supposed to be caring for him grew frustrated and threw the boy to the ground, causing massive trauma to his skull.”
I am sickened by this as many of you probably are, this is indeed ” Horrific”.
The accused happens to be the daughter of the notorious, Paul Calusinski who’s a Good Friend of
Bill…………… Sarto…………… (Carpentersville’s Village Board President)
and the infamous and Anonymous Blogger Chrysippus who sent out political flyers with Paul Calusinki’s help
Paul Calusinski who has relentlessly attacked Trustee Humpfer, Trustee Sigwalt, Trustee Teeter, and Trustee Ritter, while He should of been parenting his Daughter and looking out for potential problems within his homestead rather than trespassing into other peoples property to accuse people of Violating non life threatening codes. He should of been looking in his own house for life threatening potential dangers and abnormalities which were obviously present.
We should all grieve for the senseless loss of this young Innocent Human Life and would hope that this never happens again. The Education starts at Home!
Teach your Children “Respect” for human life.
Bless, Benjamin Kingan and his Heart Broken Family!
Richard
15 Comments
January 18, 2009 at 8:00 pm
What a truly sad loss for the parents of this infant. According to newspaper accounts there was another employee in the toddler room. This employee claimed she didn’t see anything abnormal? Did Mellissa Calusinski just quietly pick up this infant who was crying and just slammed this infant’s head unto the floor without any notice from the other employee. Sounds strange to me. I’m sure the police investigation will straighten that matter out.
Speaking of other employees at that daycare center, Jackie Humpfer [Paul Humpfer's soon to be ex-wife] is also an employee there. Jackie has lost her custody of her two young children to Paul Humpfer. Those of us who know her personally, know that the Court made the right decision. Jackie never did fight for custody, since she always had no patience her children. DCFS was also called to the Humpfer’s home for allegations of mistreatment by Jackie.
At one time, during the summer, police were called to the Humpfer’s home, due to the fact that Jackie left her daughter alone, while she was out having breakfast with trustee Linda Remariz Sliwinski and with Linda’s brother.
So, you can imagine having these two wonderful women together, working at the same daycare center.
You’re probably wondering why and how Melissa Calusinski, Jacki Humpfer, Paul Calusinski [who was tased at least three time by police for his mistreatment of his wife] and trustee Linda Remariz Sliwinski [who also had a angry outburst with her African American neighbor children] all got together?
Well, just read some of the links below. It actually seems like a very bad soap opera. But, again that’s politics here in Carpentersville, led by the courageous Village President Bill Sarto [who also had a police report about his mistreatment of his ex-wife who died soon after their divorce, which alcohol was involved]
http://carpentersvilleplayhouse.wordpress.com/2008/04/08/174/
http://carpentersvilleplayhouse.wordpress.com/2008/04/07/finger-pointer-should-look-into-a-mirror/
http://carpentersvilleplayhouse.wordpress.com/2007/12/20/ringmaster-sarto-and-his-mudslinging-clowns/
Frank “sick people, sick events” Stoneham
January 19, 2009 at 12:08 pm
Why would anyone use this Day Care Center? It’s obvious that they don’t screen their Employees very well. The Day Care Center said this was an isolated incident.
How could it be? What have they done to prevent this again?
Absolutely nothing! There is a system failure at Minee Subee If can happen once, It can and probably will happen again especially without making any changes to their hiring practices.
I intend on contacting Minee Subbe to let then know that they share the blame for this tragic Murder.
http://www.mineesubee.com/ContactUs.php
Richard
January 19, 2009 at 1:48 pm
You’d think that someone at the daycare center would of seen some type of disturbed, annoyed or some other behaviour that was troubling. Obviously, the management of that daycare center turned a blind eye to it.
Sometimes the low wages given to these employees, supercedes the bizarre behaviour that they had to see in Mellissa Calusinski.
We know that Mellissa was an infant at the time, when her Mother called the police, when her Father was tased by Carpentersville police, back in 1988. This was done, during a domestic abuse. So, she might of been raised in a family, where yelling and other forms of abuse was tolerated.
Frank “was it the enviroment or heriditary” Stoneham
January 19, 2009 at 7:41 pm
Frank, Regardless of her family , which we know was bad She is 22 yrs, old!!!
I think at some point, all of us must take responsibility for our actions.
As most of us know, Melissa’s father Paul is a SCUMBAG!!
Calling Paul Humpfer a wife beater on numerous occasions,at Village Board meetings………
Hmmmmmm…….
Feb. 23,1988 Paul Calusinski was arrested for……..
and required to pay bond for
Agv. assault/resisting arrest/assault #88-1919 date2/23/88
Agv.assault/Peace Officer/Disorderly conduct
Assault#88-1919 “without lawful authority,knowing and repeatedly threatended to “kill” Cheryl (wife) refusing to allow her to exit their home” placing Cheryl in reasonable apprehension of recieving a battery
What needs to be stated is that during this altercation Paul threatened to Kill his wife, Cheryl While she was holding her daughter.
Also what needs to be brought forward is that in order to resolve this situation, the Carpentersville Police were forced to, not once but at least 3 times forced to use a STUN GUN to subdo Mr Calusinski.
Apparently, the Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree!
This doesnt in any way attempt to forgive in any way the actions of Melissa, but puts in question her upbringing!
February 4, 2009 at 11:23 pm
Once again I find a blog where no one knows what the hell theyre talking about. Apparently you disguise your names to protect your identities. If you really have issues with the board president and its members maybe you should address them at the meetings or how about this STOP VOTING THEM BACK IN!! You want to cite something that happened back in 1988 with Paul Calusinski? That was 20 plus years ago. If I recall correctly he also sued and won his lawsuit. To drag Melissa through the dirt for what she has alleged to have done shows that you have no class and no balls because you obscure your real name. As residents of C Ville you should be supporting your own community instead of putting up forums like this. Do something to better your town instead of crying about it. Before I ever heard of the Calusinski family and only of Carpentersville I automatically associated the town name with filth and gangs. What are you doing to clean up Carpentersville? Apparently you have to much time on your hands to research case numbers and to bad mouth one another. To make a positive change within take a step forward and show some initiative. Upbringing has nothing to do with squat so that post is irrelevant.
February 5, 2009 at 1:29 pm
Vincent,
Paul Calusinski lost that lawsuit that you mentioned.
As far as Melissa Calusinski is concerned and “dragging her through the dirt.” This woman murdered a 16 month old infant. Get it?
Why don’t you post over at Bill Sarto’s re-election blogs at the following links, I’m sure they’ll be more sympathetic to Melissa and especially Paul Calusinski. You see Vincent, Paul Calusinski did the stalking and thug work for Bill Sarto and Dave Reece.
Here are the links,
http://www.carpentersville.wordpress.com
http://www.cvillecan.wordpress.com
Yours truly,
Frank “she murdered a child” Stoneham
February 6, 2009 at 10:29 am
I love the way you removed my last post Frank. In all fairness you should have left it. I can take the time out to sum up what I wrote before Frank deleted it. Apparently no one understands what innocent until proven guilty means. What Melissa is alleged to have done should not be aired on any forum of Carpentersville. If I was a young woman in police lock up for numerous hours I too would have told them what they wanted to hear if I was told I could go home. It’s called a coherced confession. I’m not saying this was a “BURGE” like situation but if you have an issue with Mr. Calusinski for standing up for the citizens of Carpentersville then you should address him personally or direct your forum posts to him directly. To post his daughters picture on here is a blatant attempt to antagonize, provoke and stir up more controversy. Not to mention Frank it is a violation of copyright laws. YES FRANKLIN the associated press owns rights to that picture.
The situation happened in Lincolnshire and not in Carpentersville so explain to me why it has any relevance to Cville business. Maybe you should come on down to Libertyville and attend a village meeting here and see what a real town meeting runs like. Your board is dysfunctional and has no UNITY!! You are still a child Frank.
February 6, 2009 at 11:35 am
vincentb11,
It was I, who posted this article. Richard Grass is the name.
I signed it at the bottom. be sure to read ALL OF IT NEXT TIME!
Go ahead with that “Rope” and stick up for the CHILD KILLER. either your related to this scum or sympathetic to slamming children down to the ground, which is it?………………………..
I’m sure your response will be entertaining, there are hundreds of people a day who read this blog, So please elaborate!
Richard
February 6, 2009 at 1:31 pm
In response to your short but meaningless post, I have no relation to the Calusinski family. I know that everyone is innocent until proven guilty and you and Franklin use this blog as a means to antagonize. So lets say for example I told you Frank was a scum bag would you defend his honor? As everyone else is entitled to they’re opinion, you go about it in the wrong way. If we are going to play games here on this blog I can certainly “stoop” to your level. I will create my own as well and post pictures of Mr. Stonehams mug shots from his arrests and list all his case numbers in the process. I have a child of my own there Richard and do not condone any types of violence towards any human being but you cannot for a second defamate any individual or they’re family. Does it make you feel better about yourself to talk trash about others? Does it make you feel like a man to hide behind a blog? It’s like calling the kettle black to use the word scum bag when Frank himself has a very extensive history of criminal behavior. Longer than that of Mr. Calusinski. I don’t even LIVE in CARPENTERSVILLE, never have. I’m sure this post will be removed because you don’t like challenges so I in the process will copy it and continue to post it. Have a nice day!
February 12, 2009 at 6:46 am
Vincent,
Did you see she was Indicted on 14 counts of first Degree Murder?
http://www.dailyherald.com/story/?id=271418&src=22
The Lake County grand jury on Wednesday indicted Melissa M. Calusinski on 14 counts of first-degree murder and two counts of aggravated battery of a child for slamming 16-month-old Benjamin Kingon of Deerfield to the ground Jan. 14, said Assistant States Attorney Steve Scheller, chief of the felony review division.
February 12, 2009 at 9:52 am
Yeah I saw when it broke the headlines yesterday. If you for one second think she will get convicted of even one charge of first degree murder you are saddenly mistaken. Don’t be so quick to cast judgement on others Frank. Let the system run it’s course. People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
February 17, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Hi Vincentb11,
It’s quite amazing you tell Frank to let the courts run their course, but then when we had Bill Sarto trying to remove Paul Humpfer with out any Court action where were you then?
I guess what is good for the Goose ain’t good for the Gander.
That of course when your name is really Kevin Sarto. It all makes sense now!
Richard
February 26, 2009 at 12:41 am
Once again the guessing game continues. I have NO relation to anyone in Carpentersville
February 26, 2009 at 7:27 am
Yeah, OK, sure !!!!!!!
I didn’t notice your picture on your Blog and Then on Bill Sarto’s Facebook page with a caption under it, “Kevin Sarto”?
Richard
February 26, 2009 at 11:38 am
As I have said before I do NOT live in Carpentersville, your opinion of wether or not I am Bill Sarto’s nephew or his son makes no difference to me. I think we got a little off topic of the subject matter at hand.